How to let it go with a relationship

If you feel you are not compatible with your partner on energy and vibration level and there are a lot of issues and problems between you and him/her.  

Sometimes, the best way to be the most loving way to someone else is to let it go and is to show them the consequences of their choices.  Sometimes it means removing yourself physically from their proximity.   Because they need to understand that’s the consequences of the choice that they are making in making themselves vibrationally incompatible with who you prefer to be. 

Then you are giving them the choice to either change to become more vibrationally compatible or you are giving them the freedom to find out what they believe is more vibrationally compatible for them at this point in their life.  That is the most unconditional loving thing you can do in that circumstance for them. So will still being of service.  
If you feel excruciating at the moment, then you don’t understand the concept of being letting it go.   You are not doing what you said you are doing. 

 
You won’t be excruciating if you are actually recognizing that you are doing the most loving thing you can to them.   Remember that you can not actually be in your state of excitement, and actually experience negativity.  If you are in a negative state,  that means you are not actually in the state of Excitement.

If you still feel excruciating that means you are still attaching fear base beliefs and negative beliefs to the circumstances that you have chosen to experience.  You need to look into why you are doing that.  If you understand that this decision is really your path, really true for you.  You should really take time to examine whether your decision is really what you want and it is your path.

But if you determine that the decision is really your path, and true yourself, then what comes along with that choice, has to be, in alignment with your true energy. What comes along with making that choice has to be the understanding that you are actually doing the most loving thing of service you could be doing for the other person.  

And if you really know that, there is no way that you would have an excruciating, negative feeling.  You will know that you are rising above,  Now, you can have compassion for what the other person might be choosing to go through, But that does not involve feeling excruciating pain.  It is just a recognition that they may be at a certain stage in their life.  You bless them and give them energy, and unconditional love to find what they need, to allow them to make choices.   Just as if you want them to allow you to make the choices you believe were best for you.   So you have to also unconditionally allow them to make the choice that at this point, in their evolution.   That’s the most unconditionally loving thing you can do.  Once you realized that, you should feel lighter and happier.   And that will be the first clue that you are now aligned with your true vibration. 

Remember, your own baggage weight nothing.   If you feel weight down, it’s because you are carrying baggage that belongs to someone else.  Don’t steal other people’s baggage, drop them, and let yourself feel lighter. 

Remember, the first step toward Enlightenment is to lighten up on yourself. 
How to let it go with a relationship and feel enlightened.

You follow your heart and let others follow their hearts.